For a man, it is necessary to know and to confirm to himself that he can do it. That he can honestly do it. That he can honestly go through the ordeal and come out a victor on the other side.
It is very important.
Once he tried to fool the authority by cheating and gets away with it, he can say, and even brag about it, that he put one over. But, seriously and honestly, he simply emasculated himself. He made himself weak. Weaker.
Because there will come a time when the real test comes and he will be found out.
The next important question is, will he man up to it? When he has been found out, weighed and found lacking? Or will he will blame others again and cheat himself, again and once more, from what is suppose to be a painfully liberating experience?
I am talking to you. Yes. You! You know who you are.
Will you man up? As Kobe manned up? :-)
"... why think like mere men?"
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